Finger Fun with DiGit from Hot Octopuss

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Hot Octopuss is a wonderful high end pleasure company based in the United Kingdom. I’m lucky to say I have toyed with several of their products. All are remarkably made with high quality body safe materials. They keep all bodies in mind when they design new toys. They have something for everyone!

The newest female product fromHot Octopuss is the DiGit! This little cutie is a brilliant simple design made to pleasure you! This wearable finger vibrator is the perfect size. It slides on a finger and lays against a finger with ease. Its a connection to your actual hand. The DiGit feels natural and stays on during play.

Offering high power felt through a smooth flexible rumbly thumb like digit. The DiGit offers five speeds that are enough to make you sore! I was worried that a small device wouldn’t be strong enough but I was wrong. I came like wildfire after just 10 minutes of self play!

Bonus this new friend is waterproof! I am going to just keep this in my bathroom and use it during my bathtime! DiGit is also perfect size to travel with or keep in a purse! Personally my fingers arent enough stimulation nor do I want to scratch myself with my nails so the DiGit is perfect!

As usually with a Hot Octopuss device this is charged by USB, lightweight, and makes no noise. The DiGit also has a 1 year warranty and only retails for $69! That is a steal for a luxurious adult product!

Shop the DiGit and more at HotOctopuss.com

Thank you to Hot Octopuss for the gifted item. All opinions are honest and my own.

Teggings At Re/Dress are Life Changing!

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Re/Dress is a Cleveland, Ohio plus size boutique that offers an array of cute comfortable finds in a large array of sizes. Not only does Re/Dress have a store in Ohio but they also have a fully stocked website and special Facebook page that showcases sales and one off items.

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Extra Long Teggings, Regular Length Teggings, and Capri Teggings

Re/Dress is known for their “Teggings” products. What the heck are teggings you may ask? Let me explain. Legging plus tights= TEGGING! It’s genius. Multiple tegging products are offered including different length leggings, crop tops, tanks, and a cage dress. All are made of premium double knit 92% nylon and 8% spandex. This combination gives the garment mega stretch, durability, and a cool wicking feature to help you stay fresh. Teggings are made to last 50 washes and fit up to a size 30!

Tegging Cage Dress, One Size, in black

I was gifted the Tegging Cage Dress in black and DAYUM I felt bangin in this! Talk about hugging me in the perfect way and showing off all the goods! Plus so comfortable, versatile, and cool.  Tall and long? Short and round? All plus size bodies can rock teggings because they are made for all plus size shapes.

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Teggings Tanks

Similar to the teggings products are some great basics like Bike Shorts, The Perfect Tunic, Perfect Tee, and Basic B.  These are staples for every woman’s wardrobe because they offer so many colors and sizes. See chart below to see how these tops range from a size 14-28!

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I tried out The Most Perfect Tunic Tank and loved the comfort and color options.The versatility of these basic tops are endless. Dress it up with jewelry and heels or keep it casual like I did. I got a 3x because I tend to size up if I haven’t tried a brand, however I could’ve used a 2x because there is so much stretch and I’m short (5’3)

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The Most Perfect Tunic, purple, size 3X

The Most Perfect Tunic is also available in a t-shirt form. There are so many color options to choose from too! Check the sizes recommendations on each product, as some differ with a 1x, 2X, or 3X option. But these still go up to a size 28 or 30! HELL YES SIZE INCLUSIVE!

 

More to come from this wonderful female owned small business!

Use code “ROXI” and save 10% off your own purchase at www.ReDressnyc.com

 

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Dildo Art!

 

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Uberrime, (Uber-ree-may) is a one man operation creating handmade unique pieces of art. Yes art. Dildo art! Uberrime offers such a large array of dildos and anal toys in a multitude of shapes, densities, and colors. Some color selections even offer combining three colors for a marble look. The design process is not taking lightly for any Uberrime product, each created especially for you in mind!

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I was gifted 3 Splendid Dual Density Dildos from my friends at Peepshow Toys! I was able to try not just one size but small, medium, and large. Immediately I loved how soft and someone smushy these dildos were. Not too soft and not too hard, just the right texture. The two layers of body safe silicone create a more realistic feel which I absolutely loved. Not only was this toy soft in my hand but also glided into me so easy just like I hoped.

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Besides looking so beautiful this works of art feel wonderful when used! I specially liked the fact that these are harness compatible and have a good suction bottom. This made them even more versatile!

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The Small Dual Density Splendid dildo offers a total length of 6 inches, not to shabby. With a maximum girth of 1.59 inch at the head. All there models are identical in the make, feel, and design which includes a lovely head. The small was a great piece to start with, to get warmed up, but personally I always enjoy bigger.

Small Dual Density Splendid Dildo, $59

 

The Medium Dual Density Splendid Dildo is only a touch larger coming in at 6 inches in length and 1.67 inch in the head. This beautiful work of art has so much detail in the head and veins in the shaft. Lifelike is an understatement!

Medium Dual Density Splendid Dildo, $69

Last the large Dual Density Splendid Dildo was my favorite for when I really wanted a long play session. The total length is 8 inches with a 2 inch head. Much larger than the other two in all ways. This is not for a beginner but perfect for some variety!

Large Dual Density Splendid Dildo, $109

To shop more beautiful pieces by Uberrime go to www.Peepshowtoys.com

Use code “ROXI” and save 10% off anything!

 

 

Wilde Mode

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I usually showcase sexy lingerie styles on here but we all know I don’t wear that type of lingerie daily. Most weekends you can catch me relaxing in comfy clothes, and that starts with undies. I found Wilde Mode on Instagram and was so happy to see some wild prints in plus sizes. Shopping for hand made undergarments is difficult because you don’t know the quality or sizing sometimes. However Wild Mode welcomes you to send measurements and provides size details for tops and bottoms.

Wilde Mode not only offers small to 4xl, but they are a gender inclusive body positive and a mental health advocate. Everything this company stands for I also believe in. Plus the cute comfy sets are a must have! So comfortable and fun!

“Our Special designs mean inclusivity, positivity and most of all means having the freedom to be who you truly are, no matter what age, race, colour, shape, size or gender!”

I got the Rainbow Unicorn Set in a 2xl and it fits so well. The top and bottom have some stretch, but it really wasn’t needed as the set fit perfect. Each piece is made from high quality eco-tex cotton with a cotton/lycra thick band. The band on the top really helped my top feel more secure. The brief also has a thich band around the top so the brief doesn’t fall down at all, it fits great on my hips. Another detail that shows the fine quality of Wilde Mode underwear is the extra lining in the crotch of the brief.

Wilde Mode also offers boxers and t-shirts! You can mix and match sets or select a solid color with a print. This is great for those that have a different size on top than on bottom. You can order a XL top and 2xl bottom or whatever you need! Wilde Mode is there to make you look cute and feel comfortable!

For all my followers Wild Mode is offering 10% off with code “RoXiAdorE102019”

Find them online at http://www.wildemode.com and on Instagram @wildemode

Thank you again to WildeMode for offering such cute and inclusive wear!

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There’s a New Wand in Town

Okay Doxy isn’t a new brand, but its new to me because I’ve always been a Hitachi Wand type of gal. However I may have been persuaded by this new bedroom pal. It offers so many more features than the Hitachi and its much nicer looking. Read on to learn my favorite parts of the Doxy 3!

I was gifted the Doxy Number 3 Aluminum Extra Powerful Massage Wand Vibrator from my friends at Betty’s Toy Box! They never fail to make me a happy girl! So this is the third Doxy on the market just as the name states. Unfortunately I don’t have the original Doxy or the Doxy Die Cast so I can’t compare the three, however I can certainly give a great opinion on Doxy 3!

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What got my attention about Doxy 3 was the detachable head! No other powerful wand has this ability so I was very eager to get my hands on it. The Doxy 3 came in a sturdy box for safe keeping. The head on the Doxy is smaller in height than the previous two and it actually unscrews to come off to clean or change head type. Yes there are actual other heads you can screw on! None of this pop on fall off attachments. The Doxy 3 heads are SCREWED ON! It wont fall off while when you are about to cum! HAHA

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The different heads are sold individually and Betty’s Toy Box has three different ones to choose from. I got to play with the Clitoral Simulator Head and the G-Spot Rabbit Head. Again both screw on with ease. I especially loved the G Spot Rabbit because I loved the power of it gave me while being inside me. The clitoral Simulator felt great, but was a little too flexible for my liking.

Clitoral Simulator head, Original head device comes with, and G-Spot Rabbit head.

Another noticeable change to Doxy 3 is the size. Doxy 3 is much smaller weighing in at 12.3 ounces rather than 2 pounds 13 ounces the original weighs. That’s one big tool! Doxy 3 is also shorter at 12.3 inches versus 13 inch original. Even though the Doxy 3 is significantly smaller it gives the same mega power as the two previous models. RPM’s range from 3,000-9,000 depending on what setting you are using.

Doxy 3 with G-Spot Rabbit head on.

Speaking of wand heads I loved the soft silicone version on Doxy 3. If I compared it to the original Hitachi I would hands down pick the Doxy 3. Besides the heads being noticeably different I felt like the Hitachi and Doxy are close in power. Because both plug in they offer major power just as I like it.

The Doxy 3 does have two other one ups on the Hitachi- The removable head and the 3 prong plug in that can convert to multiple countries electrical outlets. This is your new travel buddy aka best friend!

Thank you again to the wonderful team at Betty’s Toy Box! For an additional savings and to support my affiliate program with Betty’s Toy Box please purchase direct from Betty’s and use code “ROXI” for 10% off! As always thank you to Betty’s Toy Box! Shop here!

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Thrust Me No More

I’ve been on the hunt for a hands free vibrator for awhile. Most are pricey (over $150) and I haven’t seen a lot of options so I was hesitant to get something. But my friends at Peepshow Toys always hook me up and sent me the Maia Monroe Thrusting Dildo to try out.
At a glance the Maia Monroe Thrusting Dildo had everything I normally want in an adult toy:

  • 1 yr warranty
  • multi speed
  • waterproof
  • detachable, adjustable suction
  • wireless
  • body safe high quality silicone

 

Unfortunately this thrusting toy fell short in a few other places. I prefer something longer than 5 inches for toys I use on myself. I am a fat girl with short arms so I must have a device that wont be too short for me to reach myself. #T-rexlife
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Also the VERY loud noise this makes when in use was incredibly distracting for me. Unless you want to feel like you are being fucked by a robot, I don’t suggest this thruster. Also, if you are in the sex industry like me and made videos, the aggressive noise of this thruster is very unappealing on video. I was actually shocked something of this size could be so damn loud!

 


Otherwise this thruster did feel good and the smooth silicone felt great. I really did like that this has a remote and is wireless so you really don’t feel attached to a big machine. You can move this with you to any room so that is a bonus! The up and down thrusting did give a lovely sensation with three different speeds, plus boost the vibrations up 10x for the most power. I did use it on the highest speed without problem but was happy I could start it slow to get the feel of things.
I’m not sure many ladies are looking for a toy that is self powered like this, but I know being hands free is a life saver when making videos for clients. For all my other sex industry ladies I do plan to review an actual sex machine soon so stay tuned for that!

 

Thank you to Peepshow Toys for gifting me the Mia Monroe Thruster and for offering my readers 10% off with code “ROXI”. Shop my affiliate like here.

 

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Avant Pride Collection

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I have been eyeing the lovely Avant Pride Collection from Blush Novelties since it launched last year. As a huge fan of Blush I knew these would be comfortable high quality toys plus they did this line in celebration of PRIDE!

We created the Blush Avant line because representation matters to us. Our mission, which we stand behind wholeheartedly: “We believe all bodies are beautiful, worthy, and deserving of celebration and pleasure.”

I couldn’t agree more! I full support and back this company not only because of their positive message but because they only produce quality body safe toys. The Avant line offers a variety of VERY colorful dildos and plugs all with the best suction bottom I have ever used. You don’t have to even put pressure on the toy, it simply suctions down once it contacts the floor. AWESOME for a rowdy big girl like myself because I can never find strong enough suctions that stay in place.

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There are 12 uniquely great toys in the Avant Collection all body safe non-porus, perfectly curved for pleasure and have a suction on the end for stability. Also all are harness compatible and very easy to clean! I got to try out two different dildos from this collection and absolutely loved them! I think I should “collect them all” and get the remaining 10! There is just something about the texture of these, they are so smooth, comfortable, flexible but strong. Made of pure satin smooth silicone these toys feel wonderful against my bare skin.


Not only are these toys so bright and cute they also come in lovely packing. Blush really goes out of their way to not only make great products but to deliver the entire package in a classy way. I really love how all the vital stats are proudly displayed on the box so there is no need for “instructions” or guide.
I tried out the Avant Pride P2- True Blue. This medium size product is perfect for the g spot and the prostate. You pick the hole! This entire collection is made for everyone. So multi hole, multi partner, the sky is the limit! (Of course clean before changing holes or partners!) The P2 is 6 inches in total length and 1.4 inches in width. I call this medium size and I was able to use it vaginally and anally perfectly. The smooth silicone is really a dream come true it makes insertion so easy. No fuss, no smell, no issues! 100% pleasure and ease!

 

 

$28.99 on sale at Bettys Toy Box

 

Next I got to try out the Avant D4- Sexy in Pink. When I first got this and it was next to the P2 I thought “OH damn this is big”! But once unboxed and it my hands it was much more manageable and once it was in my pussy OH HELL YES it was wonderful! Standing at 8 inches tall and 1.75 inches wide this is basically my dream size for a dildo. I may be a size Queen but I just know what feels good! Only 7 inches of this are insertable so its not really that large. This is certainly my new go to favorite dildo because I can ride it, lay down and use it on myself, use with a strap on, or use it with my Liberator for an even better ride. I love how again this material is perfect- it doesn’t get too slippery but yet is incredibly smooth.

$49.99 on sale at Bettys Toy Box

 

There are so many others in this collection I must try! They are have such unique shapes that you don’t see on other toys. Plus them all having a suction is a major bonus for me as I like to ride the bigger dildos =) Stay tuned to see which one I test out next! Two down 10 to go!

Special thanks to Betty’s Toy box for gifting these items and always being a wonderful sex positive safe place for shopping. Use my code “ROXI” for 10% off your next order online at www.BettysToyBox.com

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This is 35

Today I am 35 years old. At first this scared me. I am now closer to 40. I always round up so to me I’m in the 40’s category, but really that doesn’t matter right? Age is just a number they say. Beauty has no age. etc etc.

Well some days I do feel older, like when I have to google internet slang like smh or I have to explain to my son what a CD is. My knees pop when I walk up stairs or just move sometimes. 1999 doesn’t seem that long ago, but holy shit it was 20 years ago. I am happy when I get carded for alcohol. I’ve aged into a brand name snob for things like make up and shoes. (I’ll never give up my Aldi grocery shopping though don’t worry!) I remember I was in high school audio visual class when 9/11 happened. We watched the news all day not understanding what a catastrophic event just happened. I remember my teachers saying this will be in all the history books and we are witnessing it.

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You could say I’ve witnessed a lot in my 35 years. I’ve traveled to 8 different countries and all over the United States. I have birthed a son. I got a college degree. I stripped in Vegas. I went to European alone for 6 months. I’ve met countless wonderful people and tons of scumbags. I’ve slept with some in both category. I’ve put myself out into this fucked up world and have come out successful! That is hard to fucking do. I’ve been in love, I’ve been hurt and I’ve hurt others. I have crumbled and fell, but I have grown.

I always say my experiences in life have made me the confident person I am. I cant say it enough because I promise you I was a insecure shy closed off mess at 18 years old. A younger version of me would have never model, never be naked on the internet and certainly never think people would pay to see me naked.

So today turning 35 isn’t scary anymore. Being this age is fucking great because I am happy in the life I’ve built. I am independent yet also have a wonderful support system that I choose to bring into my life. I have made my life what it is today and its pretty fucking amazing. It is amazing because I have worked my ass off and got what I wanted. Success.

My age isn’t going to slow me down anytime soon. I am excited for many projects and trips coming up in 2019. I’ll meet more great people and some assholes along the road. I know now not to waste one moment on the assholes. I know not to sacrifice my happiness for anyone else’s. I know to put my family and myself first.

Thank you for being wonderful supporters of my wild ways! Let’s keep having naked adventures in 2019!

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The King of Wands: Hitachi

He is back and better than ever. Yes I am referring to the new Hitachi Plus as a male. No I’m not being sexist. I just feel the Hitachi has a strong male dominance to it. Like the Hitachi Plus is a sexy Canadian Lumberjack who wears flannel and drinks maple syrup by the gallon. You fantasize about this too right? No? Ok moving on….


Before we get hot and heavy please tell me you have used a Hitachi Magic Wand before? If not I need you to just skip the reading, click my links and go buy it TODAY.

Seriously. Click here. http://www.Peepshowtoys.com

So, I have had my original magic wand about 7 years. This is a really long time to still be using a toy and it still working perfect. I promise I have used and abused this poor wand. It is one stubborn piece of machinery. To give you some back story the Hitachi has been around over 30 years, has been referenced in movies and written about in magazines like Time and Cosmopolitan. The Hitachi is EPIC- LIFE and ORGASM CHANGING.
So why make a new Hitachi when the original is perfect? Well technology has changed, sex culture has grown, and more people are playing! So thank you Hitachi for seeing this and making a wonderful toy even better.

There are 3 changes to discuss about the new Hitachi Plus Wand.

  1. There are now 4 speeds on this machine! The older one only has high and low. Friends let me tell you I haven’t even been able to try speed 4 because of the sheer power the Hitachi has. I might be a little scared for my clit. But in a really fun way. The Plus offers 4 steady intensities: 2,700; 3,800; 5,400; and 6,300 vibrations per minute. The older Hitachi only goes to 6,000 so the Plus offers more which I didn’t think was even possible.
  1. The head on the new wand is MUCH smoother. The head is still on the harder side but very comfortable on the skin. Also there is a small bend so the device isn’t stiff. The new head is 100x better because the old one was a too rough and actually has small indents making it harder to clean after use. As always with Peepshow Toys items the head on this is made of body safe silicone.
  2. The cord now detaches making it easier to store the wand and without worry of wearing out the cord. This Hitachi does require the cord to be connected during use, but that gives the most powerful massage you’ll ever have. Even better about this cord is now you have to click down on a small button to release the cord. So there is no chance it will accidently pull out during use or break from bending too much. I really love this cord “lock” feature. You can even hear is lock into place.


If you already own the original Hitachi its time to upgrade! Seriously, its not hygienic to use the same wand for years and years. Plus I want you all to test out speed 4 and report back to me ASAP. So go get yourself the Canadian Lumberjack of your dreams just like I did. It’s been true love the instant he made me cum.

Big thanks to Peepshow Toys for gifting this product and for offering my readers 10% off with code “ROXI”. Go get your shop on at www.peepshowtoys.com

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Confidence and Mental Health

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Confidence: One simple word yet not a simple concept. I get often get asked how I have the confidence to model, to pose nude, to do sex work, etc.  My answer isn’t simple, its complex just like me.  What adds even more complexity is my depression.

I am getting real here because I like to always be 100% even when its hard. So I suffer from manic depression. I hate the term suffer but not sure how else to say it. Most days are good days because I am on antidepressants and they help IMMENSELY. I have been on some type of anti depressant since I was 16. A long damn time. Depression and anxiety run in my family so I wasn’t really embarrassed to use medication but I wasn’t happy about it either. Honestly I am thankful for the medicine I have had, without it I wouldn’t be living the like I do now.

Fast forward to my 20’s, I wasn’t the confident self assured woman I am today. My biggest advice on gaining confidence is don’t rush things. Growing, maturing, and this learning to love yourself (even that big belly) takes a lot of time. I am about to be 35 and never would my 21 year old self believe I could model and sell images and videos to fans. I have fans?! OMG! Never ever did I think that could happen.  At 21 I was a size 14 pant, today I am a 22 pant. Back then I hated my body and thought I was obese. (Thank you society for fucking with my head so much! *Gives middle finger*)

Unfortunately I let boyfriends shape how I felt about myself. Also my family wasn’t exactly body positive in any form.  Because of past relationships I have been in I know now its  not okay for ANYONE to push their body views onto you. You have ONE body and you own it, NO ONE ELSE. Yes you may share it with someone if you like but that is all up to you. TAKE OWNERSHIP OF YOURSELF.  Do not let anyone else TELL YOU that you should eat less or change this or that.  YOU DECIDE.  This is a hard concept because we all constantly having other critiquing us even if they don’t always mean to. Its human nature to look and form an opinion. But that’s all it is-an opinion.

Once I let go of caring what my partners said about my appearance or what my mom said about my pant size I felt so much better about myself. I wore that I wanted and was proud of my body. It didn’t look like anyone else and to me that was wonderful.  Once I say “let me freak flag fly” I was getting complimented by men and women often. I strongly encourage women to lift each other up and not bash one another. Sadly we already have so many people bashing us as it is. We need to stick together. Now when I wear a new fancy dress out its always women how compliment me and it makes me so happy! Men are easy to please with sex appeal, but other women noticing you out of a crowd is a big deal. To me that speaks volumes of how you carry yourself.

Back to the C word. I do not have confidence every single day, it is WORK! I have to keep myself happy, stay in a positive mind, and then I exude confidence. Once you have it you will notice more people will be drawn to you because confidence attracts other confidence.  Sounds odd but its true. Are you attracted to someone who is negative and a “debbie downer”. NO! Are you attracted to someone who is happy and positive? YES!

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Having depression has really fucked up my confidence many times. There are days I just cry and don’t know why. Sometimes I don’t want to leave my house or talk to anyone.  I’ve had suicidal thoughts in the past. This may surprise you but depression is no joke and I hope seeing me be open about mental health will help others talk about it more freely as well. Unfortunately society has put a stigma on it and that needs to end. Thankfully I got medicine when I did and keep up to date with it. Missing 1-2 days really fucks me up, I learned that the hard way. Also, I have a wonderful support system that help me get through bad days.

  • Confidence takes years! Live your life, experience new things! Life changes so much and you must embrace it.
  • Indulge in self care! BE SELFISH sometimes! Get your nails done, a massage, take a bubble bath, go shopping, go to a fancy restaurant dressed to the 9’s!
  • Push yourself to grow
  • Don’t expect everyday to be great. We all have shit days. It’s okay!
  • Make sure you have supportive people in your life. Ditch the dickheads who say you shouldn’t eat cookies or don’t believe depression is real. (College ex memories)
  • BE YOU! Don’t hide yourself even if its scary to be seen

 

Lastly I ask us all to educate ourselves more on mental health. One of my favorite organizations is Hope For The Day  This is a non profit that I came across at Warped Tour a few years back. I love having this group on my social media because it makes me so happy seeing them spread awareness. Go check them out.

As always thank you for reading!

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