Sola 4 Piece Egg!

I’ve had little handheld egg vibrators before, but the Sola Egg is TOTALLY DIFFERENT. This egg is very unique because it not only comes with 3 sleeves but also is pressure sensitive. Meaning the vibration starts and stops depending on the amount of pressure your hand puts on the egg! This means no matter how little or how much pressure you prefer this egg can give you exactly what you need.

Sola always aims to embrace both pleasure and relaxation in their toys and the egg is no exception.

Sola delivers in everyway from beautiful packaging to high end products.

Immediately opening my new egg I was thrilled by having 3 different sleeve choices (and the adorable look they all have): The Bunni sleeve for clitoral stimulation, the Omni sleeve for foreplay, and the Swedish sleeve for deep tissue. The sleeves are very easy to put on and stay on during use.

This egg isn’t strictly made for female clitoral stimulation. Couples could use this for back massages or for foreplay. My husband especially liked me rubbing the Swedish sleeve all over his thighs.

As with all Sola products the egg is body safe, latex free, waterproof, USB chargeable and has a warranty. Like I have said many times, I trust all Sola products and only use USB charging toys. Sola is a high quality brand that continues to produce outstanding quality products.

Lastly the egg offers a very unique charging station! I have never had a toy with an actual pod to put my toy in. This is so perfect because a light clicks on when immediatly connected. No fuss with cords or finding the right hole to plug into.

Simply organized genius!

Special thanks to SOLA and Betty’s Toy Box!

Please check out all their toys at www.MeetSola.com and on Instagram @meetsola

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To purchase the Sola Egg go to Betty’s Toy Box by clicking HERE!

5kisses

xoxo-ashlee

This post was sponsored by Sola. All opinions are my own as I only give honest reviews.

Playful Promises Lingerie

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You all know I LOVE my lingerie, especially any ultra sexy vintage styles! I need a closet just for sexy lingerie that I do not wear daily. (HAHA But seriously) Playful Promises has been on my radar for awhile but I didn’t try their items until they launched the Gabi Fresh lingerie line featuring plus sizes. The Gabi Fresh briefs come in sizes 12 through 24; for bras, band sizes 36-38 come in B through I cups, and 40-44 in C through I. Prices start at $20 for underwear and cap off at $81 for a satin pajama set. My only issue with this line is there is not enough! I want more Gabi!

Gabi Fresh x PP. Madison Set. Wearing a US 42D and US 22 panty

I loved the Gabi Fresh Madison set I got, it was worth the money and fit so well. I especially loved the bra because it was made so well, sturdy and supportive but also could be worn daily. The small details on this set like metal clasps and a V design garter strap. These details make this set stand out and more luscious to wear and see. The sizing was also spot on for the Madison Set I bought. I wear a 42D bra and a US 22 panty. Playful Promises is a London based UK company so please make sure to know if you are ordering US sizes or UK. They offer both!

Emerald Strappy Curve Bra 42D, Panty US22, and Garter Belt US 22.

Once I got the amazing Gabi Fresh set I had to have more. Because her line is so limited I kept looking at the other items Playful Promises offer and realized they do have some curve sets. You can shop in the curves section to find so many gorgeous flirty sets. They have everything from bodysuits, garters, or full sets. The only issue I find is with the briefs not going up to a large enough size. The site says collections go to size UK 28 bottom but I have never seen this size. Most seem to stop at a UK 20 and I am a UK 24. If the entire site was sized like the Gabi Fresh line it would be WONDERFUL!

Peek & Beau Faye Lilac Peek Cup, 42D and panty US 22.

Out of the 10 sets I have from Playful Promises every one fit absolutely perfect expect one bra was too sung with no stretch. Otherwise I am in love with this brand. They are sex worker friendly, pro body positivity and simply put have the most beautiful designs I’ve seen. All body types can wear these pieces and Playful Promises aims to keep their brand inclusive to all. Plus they have mega sales occasionally that drop the prices so low you cant not buy all the pretty things!

Peek & Beau Open Callie LAce UP Bra, 42D, panty US 22

Please continue to following my on all my media @XAshleeO where I post a lot of lingerie images often featuring Playful Promises. They are certianly in my top 3 lingerie brands! More lingerie reviews soon to come! Or tell me which brands you’d like to see me in!

Meet Jett from Sola!

Sola Jett G Spot and Clitoral Vibe

Now is the time to upgrade your toy game! I was at the next level with my new Sola Jett- G Spot and Clitoral Vibe! This vibe took me to cloud 9 and I never want to come back to reality.

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Sola is a brand that produces the highest quality adult toys I have ever experienced and I promise that is saying a lot. The Jett is my second Sola toy and both are my favorites out of the 100’s I own. (Yes I may have too many, but hey its for research purposes!) All Sola toys are made of the softest safest silicone I have felt, the material is inviting to my skin and other sense. This vibe is also slightly flexible to add comfort.

The Jett has USB recharging which is a must for me(fuck batteries they can’t keep up). The Jett produces 5 vibration speeds and 5 rhythms. These options give some SERIOUS power. I didn’t even get to the strongest vibration before I came.

What really made the Jett stand out is the area that touched the clitoris. Don’t give me those weak soft rabbit “fingers”, I need something with some size and power behind it. Like a lumber jacks fingers! The Jett gives me exactly what I need- power and pleasure! The width, length, and power behind the smaller area of this toy were perfect. Any larger and it might be too big while any smaller is a waste of my time. The main shaft of the Jett was also highly satisfying in width and girth fitting me in every way. Internal penetration plus clitoral stimulation is key for me to have an enjoyable experience alone or with my partner. This toy enhanced both and is a trusted go to toy.

I can’t rave enough about my love for Sola toys. They are 100% worth every penny, they have a warranty, are water proof and USB charging. Sola toys are sold many places but I suggest shopping with my friends at Betty’s Toy Box.

By using the above link you are shopping through  my affiliate link, which gives me a small kickback. I appreciate the support!

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Big thanks to Sola Products for giving this vibe! Please check out all their toys at http://www.MeetSola.com and on Instagram @meetsola

 

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xoxo-ashlee

Adam and Eve Plus Size Lingerie!

I am sure you have heard about Adam and Eve, but did you know they have a huge collection of plus size lingerie! I had no idea until I started browsing their site and I’m so glad I did. I know there are tons of ladies pushing Adam and Eve right now, but here me out. They have a huge selection, better prices than most places, and good customer service. No this isn’t high end luxury lingerie, but it is perfect for everyone because of the huge style selection.

Thank you to Adam and Eve for gifting me 3 lingerie options and offering my followers 50% off! That’s right get 50% OFF almost any adult item from Adam and Eve  and free US/CAN shipping by using offer code “ASHLEE” on www.AdamandEve.com. 18+ only.

#1. Valentina Halter Babydoll, sixze 3/4x.

This cute number was comfortable and made my boobs look AMAZING. I will be wearing this all the time as its simple to slip on and fits perfect. The matching panties are super cute and also fit so well. Ladies don’t let this mega cleavage make you nervous, this open front is the best way to display your boobs without a bra. We don’t always have to have them pushed up and together! Hell no let them hang and be naturally sexy!

 

#2 Strappy Teddy, one size plus size.

This dominate look is so incredibly sexy! I instantly felt insatiable in this 1 piece teddy. My ass looks amazing, showing a lot of cheek, my hips show their natural flare and my boobs sit perfect under the seductive criss cross. My only compliant is this was a little too tight, mainly around the neck area. I really had to pull it up to get it around my neck. But it did have stretch too it. If this was available in 3/4x and not “one size fits all plus size” it would’ve been better for my body.

#3 Beautiful Dreams Babydoll, 3x

I am not normally a fan of baby-dolls but wanted something anyone could wear and feel good. This was easy to wear, but the top was much too big. I am a 42D, so not small but my boobs could not fill this piece out at all. The cute straps just hung on me since my boobs didn’t fill this. I was disappointed with this piece because of that. Otherwise the g string was cute and fit well.

 

Overall I think all these pieces are wearable and I will be trying more from Adam and Eve. I look forward to trying some more daring pieces next time also.  They offer such a wide variety and with the discount below you can find items for a bargain.  So much better than trying to find sexy plus size lingerie on Amazon that is made cheaply or paying $60 for a piece you will only wear once.

Thank you to Adam and Eve for offering my followers 50% off. That’s right get 50% OFF almost any adult item from Adam and Eve  and free US/CAN shipping by using offer code “ASHLEE” on www.AdamandEve.com. 18+ only.

5kisses

xoxo-ashlee

We Vibe from Betty’s ToyBox

As a Betty’s Toybox affiliate member I am always excited to try new adult toys. This time I got to rest out the We-Vibe Jive Wearable Hands Free G-Spot Vibrator. I was already familiar with We Vibe brand and know they make high quality toys. I have had no issues with any I already own, so getting a new We Vibe to add to my collection was a no brainer!

This toy is really for ANYONE! Do you like be stimulated inside or out? Do you like handsfree? Do you like bluetooth and USB charging? Then you would like the We-Vibe! This is primarily made for the female to insert and reach the treasured G spot. The smooth silicone texture makes for very easy insertion and movement. There is only one small button so it is easy to turn on and change between the 10 intense vibrations. Let your partner control this little gem from their phone up to 30 feet away and you will be one happy woman.

My favorite feature is the bluetooth capability. This is one high end and high tech device. Upgrade from those awful “vibrating panties” and get a real toy with a 2 year warranty!

The We-Vibe is also waterproof safe and USB chargeable with a very simple magnetic connector. The toy itself is very comfortable and flexible for anyone. In fact it got quite slippery, but that was only downside.

This is a very high quality toy and We Vibe stands behind their products. I look forward to seeing what else they come out with!

To get this toy and so many more use my affiliate link below.

Betty’s Toybox!

Special Thanks to Betty’s Toy Box and We-Vibe!

CowCow Plus Size 2.0!

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I was chosen as a 2017 Cow Cow Plus Size Ambassador! This is my second time working with Cow Cow and you can see my first post from 2016 in my archives. As a Plus Size Ambassador I was gifted 5 apparel items and naturally I went with mostly dresses! Because all products are made from a very stretchy mix of spandex and polyester, the dresses are my favorite rather than leggings or tops. For those not familiar with Cow Cow it is a unique online clothing company specializing in all over print. Anyone can design a print and send it to be sold on their site! There are literally 1,000’s of prints and products. Though I am partial to their dresses they have all types of clothing for men, women and kids and also bags, magnets, mugs, shoes, and more.

Black Cat Dot Skater Dress, 3XL: The skater dress is my favorite style from Cow Cow because I love how it hugs my waist and flares at the hips. I could wear a skater dress everyday in the summer, its so comfortable and cute. I prefer the sleeveless like above. This design is unique because it has the different print on top, an oddity for Cow Cow so I was so excited when I found it. Plus its freaking adorable. Meow Meow!

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Sweet Pattern Sleeveless Skater Dress, 3xl: Last order I got a donut dress that I got so much amazing feedback on so I knew I needed another sweet treat print! This one I fell in love with because of how light and girlie it is. Again perfect for a summer day or night. I got a 3XL again and it fits perfect. The dress hugs my chest and waist to show off my figure while flaring out at the hips where I need more room anyway. It sits just above my knee which I like, especially since I’m only 5’3.

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Skeleton Pattern Lace Up Front Bodycon Dress, 3XL: This LACE UP bodycon was a new one I found on Cow Cow and I LOVE IT. I have one other bodycon that is super sexy and tight, but this was with corset like lace up on front is amazing and constructed nicely. These lace up detail is so cute and actually does a little cinching. I do not have it pulled tight in these photos, because leaving as is was more comfortable. I highly recommend this bodycon style because it is the perfect little dress for nights out. Dress it up with heels and a cute clutch. I felt like a total sex bomb in this number. As a bodycon it is of course tight all over, but the fabric that is used for all Cow Cow items is super stretchy.

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Black Skeleton Cap Sleeve Dress, 3XL: Apparently I wear a lot of black. HAHA I knew this already but now here is more proof. I found this fish print and just had to have it! Especially since it was on a black background. This dress is just like the skater dress expect a little less flare in the bottom and has short sleeves. Personally, I hate sleeves but I wanted to try them. They are a bit tight on me, which is what I was worried about, but it wont stop me from wearing this. Maybe I have XXXL arms, I’m not sure…

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Small Christmas Red Polka Dot Hearts On Snow Bikini, 3XL: I GOT A STRING BIKINI! This is a major FIRST!

I have never owned anything but fatkinis, but I said “Fuck It” I want to do this all the way! So I found the cutest smallest polka dot bikini. HEART polka dots! How insanely cute. This bikini is made very well, it even has small pad in cups so its not just fabric. No support or lift, but that is the style of top I picked out. The bottoms tie great and hold up just fine. Made very sturdy for such small items. I will be rocking this on vacation!

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Thank you Cow Cow for exceeding my expectations with these fun prints and great stretchy garments! I cant wait to explore your website again for find fun and unique prints. Again I wore a 3xl in all items above. I am a 20/22 and 5’3. I suggest sizing up if you are in between sizes because this fabric does hug all your curves, but always for stretch.

TooTimid.com Sex Toy Haul

I have teamed up with Too Timid, a online adult toy and lingerie website.  As I continue to explore new adult toys I plan to share my reviews here!

1. Crush Cupcake Vibrator

Love the color and size of this vibrator. I know looks don’t
matter so much but this color is so pretty! The length of 7inches and diameter
of 1.25 inches was a perfect fit for me! It filled me up in all ways and made
me feel great. The vibration I liked on the higher speeds, but I do always prefer
a more aggressive vibe. With 10 vibrating options practically anyone could find
one they love.  This is a great vibrator
in every way except it takes batteries. I prefer a USB rechargeable toy because
I never have batteries. However, if you don’t mind that I would say this toy is
practically flawless.  The size and shape
are especially comfortable and satisfying. The silicone was soft and the shape
was well designed, I had no trouble using this toy at all. Some vibrators have
no bend whatsoever or some have too much bend. This one has a small amount of
bend making it easy to insert and nice and firm while inside. It is a really
great vibrator for internal fun!

2. Bondage Set

This is a beautiful set, with my favorite colors black and
red, making it extra sexy. I immediately grabbed the paddle and felt its silky
red lace. This paddle is well made and built to last many spankings. The lace
side gives more texture to the ass while the other side is smooth for a more
stingy spanking. This is an all-around excellent paddle for anyone’s
collection.  I also thoroughly enjoyed
the ribbon and silk handcuffs. Not the usual metal cuffs that hurt, these are
much more sexy and playful. But also get the job done. These are well made and
do hold wrists in place for some light BDSM play. I really enjoyed how sexy
they made me feel while I had them on. Next in the set is an all lace black
mask. I would have preferred a mask to cover my eyes to really set my sense of
touch on fire, BUT this is a sexy fun mask to use also.  It would be great for some sexy photos also!
Last and for him is a stretchy vibrating cock ring. This is a great standard
one bullet cock ring that enhances play for both people.  The bullet was strong but not overbearing,
just the right amount to add stimulation. All in all the paddle was my favorite
item of this set because you can do so much with it and it’s so well made. This
entire set is perfect for a couples special night, a surprise bedroom gift, or
to just change it up one night. If my man bought this and surprised me with it,
using each item on me I would absolutely melt with desire!
3. Mini Vibe

As the title says this little vibe is so cute! As soon as I
got this I said “awwww” how adorable, it can go on my keychain! Or just in my
purse. Perfect for travel anywhere because it is so small. That being said it
is actually smaller than I imagined and I’d prefer a larger “head” or wand end.
Otherwise it’s absolutely perfect purse
companion.  I really love that this is
USB charging and does not require batteries. USB seems to usually give a longer
and stronger charge. Plus batteries are just a pain. This little wand also has
three settings, giving you the most vibration on high of course. For its size
it has great strength. I wasn’t sure it would do much since it’s so tiny but it
was the perfect clitoral stimulation I needed when I was playing solo. I think
this would be a great toy for any lady who loves clitoral stimulation anytime
anywhere, especially on the go!

 

Sexy and Sultry in Curvy Kate

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Sheer Bliss Balconette Bra in Mulberry Print, size 42D. Matching panty size 24.

I  was lucky enough to have Bra Stop hook me up with two gorgeous Curvy Kate sets recently. As an avid Curvy Kate fan, I would love to wear a gorgeous Curvy Kate lingerie set everyday! Their lingerie is silky, sexy, modern, and comfortable!

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As a very known UK brand Curvy Kate is loved for their large cup beautiful lingerie. I love how Curvy Kate bras always fit me so well. Wires don’t poke in my sides or break. The quality is top notch and they make me feel drop dead gorgeous! Plus the panties always fit my large hips and belly no problem. The smooth silk these sets are made to make me feel like a porcelain goddess.

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Princess Balconette Bra in Rose, size 42D. Panty size 24.

Not only does Bra Stop offer Curvy Kate they also have incredible brands like Freya, Pour Moi!, Tutti Rougue, and more! Most are UK brands that are now available in the US thanks to Bra Stop. Always remember to check if sizing is in UK or US size. Curvy Kate for example is a UK brand so you must see what your UK size is.

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I cant say enough how much I love all the Curvy Kate sets I have. From everyday wear under my office attire to spicing up a little black dress. The lingerie is so versatile because it is not only comfortable but also great looking. Available in UK sizes 28D-44F Curvy Kate is made for large chested women.  Panties range from 8-24 UK Size. For sizing example I wear a 42D and 24 panty (UK).

If you haven’t tried a set from Bra Stop I highly suggest you do. The prices are great and there are always sales on top of that. No where else delivers such an array of UK lingerie to the US! Thanks for sharing the love and lingerie!

 

Thank you again to the wonderful team at Bra Stop for collaborating with me and providing great lingerie.

And a big thank you to Matthew Mayer Photography  @mmp_photos for the epic shots of me frolicking outdoors in my pretty panties.

 

5kisses

xoxo-ashlee

How to create a sexy bedroom environment (and get a better sleep)

*Special guest post by Sarah from The Sleep Advisor!

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Good news everyone – there’s another HUGE benefit to having sex. (Yay!)

Sex helps us sleep. No, I’m not talking about during the act, or even that awkward post-coital moment when he hasn’t rolled off you but has somehow managed to fall into slumber instead. Ugh.

I’m talking about that lovely, dreamy slumberland that sex can evoke, that great night’s sleep that’s been eluding you for days – or weeks? months?! – until you’ve had a good ol’ dose of nookie. When it does happen and you slide off into la-la land, you wake up rested. Refreshed. Ready for Round 2 (or 3).

 

But how exactly does sex help me sleep?

Good question. Well, it releases all those feel-good, stay-secure hormones like oxytocin and prolactin, which lead you to feel comfortable, relaxed and drowsy after The Big Moment. Simultaneously, it reduces cortisol levels in the body; that pesky hormone which causes those wheels of anxiety spinning in your stressed-out mind.

And you know what? More sleep can actually increase your libido, leading to – you got it – more sex. Bonus.

I’m intrigued. And I want more! How can I get some?

I’m so glad you asked. Obviously you’re in charge of sending out some serious sex appeal…but I can help you set the scene for what happens next. Because unlike what some porn directors would have you believe, there ain’t nothing sexy about fluorescent lighting

 

Here’s how to create a sexy bedroom environment:

1. Keep your work at the office

Or, if you work from home, make sure that your computer and other wirey-type stuff (technical term, FYI) are kept out of the bedroom. Tripping over chargers or seeing an email flash up in the throes of passion is a sure-fire way to kill the mood. So keep things separate – your work can be elsewhere but your bedroom is strictly for play.

2. Lose the gadgets

Unless, of course, you’re talking about your favourite new toy. What I mean is, your phones and laptops should be kept in another room if you can stand it, or at the very least, switched off when it’s time for bed. For one, the blue light they emit is a bad idea when you’re trying to get to sleep. Those science dudes say so, and I’m inclined to believe them.

Even more important, getting into a habit of binge-watching the latest Netflix hit with your partner won’t exactly get your pulse racing. Well, maybe it will but getting all hot and bothered about Stranger Things isn’t what we’re striving for here. So ditch the gadgets and welcome some ‘quiet time’ instead.

3. Light it up

You might be more of a ‘lights off’ person. Maybe that’s because you’ve only ever done it with a harsh 100-watt staring you in the face. In which case, I don’t blame you – after all nothing looks sexy in that kind of light. (Side note: so why the f**k do so many stores insist on blinding lights in their dressing rooms?!)

Take it from me: sex with the light on is a great idea. But like any good photographer will tell you, it’s all about finding the right light. Whether it comes from a dimmer switch or flickering candles (scented ones are even better), soft lighting helps you look and feel your best. A coloured scarf can also create a romantic glow when thrown over a lampshade; just make sure it isn’t placed over the naked bulb itself. Because we’re not after a fire here – just fireworks!

4. Focus on the senses

You’ve already created a visually pleasing environment, but what about your other senses? Those scented candles I mentioned can work a treat, as can burning some of your favourite essential oils. Or why not use the oils during a sensual massage? Then you’ll be taking care of your sense of smell and touch. Win-win.

Taste? Well, each other, hopefully! But of course there’s all those aphrodisiacs you can try before you even hit the hay. And while we may all not have oysters lying around our fridge, we can certainly give the more accessible ones – like chocolate – a try. Hell, why not bring it into the bedroom with you? Mmm, syrupy…

Sound? That’s easy, get your Barry White going – or maybe something slightly less cheesy – and start your sexy soundtrack to get you both in the mood.

 

5. Invest in the best

So you’ve got a bedroom that’s distraction-free, dimly lit and smelling great. You’ve dined on some delectable foods and those sultry songs have you making straight for the centerpiece of the room.

You both crash onto the bed, in a flurry of passion…and then…a haphazard spring sends you leaping up in pain.

Let’s face it. A saggy mattress or a lumpy pillow don’t exactly scream ‘sexy time’. Of course, there’s always the floor – but for me a comfortable, supportive bed for whatever you get involved in makes a big difference. Mattresses may not come cheap but get the right one and it’ll last you for a lifetime of great sex. Totally worth it.

Now that you’ve got your perfect bedroom environment, what’re you waiting for? Get to bed – you can thank me for the great sleep you’ll have afterwards later.

 

(This was a paid post specifically for http://www.ConfindeltyAshlee.com
Photos by Nine 23 Boudoir and James Urban Photo. Thank you!)