Plus Size line Curvy Sense Review


I seriously have to gush over Curvy Sense! So many positives with this company that I don’t know where to start. The styles of course are amazing, you can find causal cute T’s or sexy bodysuits. They literally have everything a girl could want on their site. Even bikinis and swimsuits. Plus their prices are AMAZING! Normally you get what you pay for, but their low prices give you very high quality garments. All three items I received from Curvy Sense came in great shape and were very well made. (Bonus most items are made in the USA) I’m no gentle little lady so I do give my clothing some serious wear, so quality is a necessity. I was especially impressed with the stitching and overall construction of all my pieces. All were flawless and thicker than a normal $20 item.

Plus Size Accordion Cross Front Bodysuit- Size 3x- $@3.00

This bodysuit gave my girls all the love up top! I always enjoy cleavage so I was excited about a V neck cross front bodysuit. The straps were adjustable also which is great because I am short and often need to change my straps. The bodysuit fit perfect in every spot! The fabric is stretchy and I had plenty of room so I was comfortable. I paired this bodysuit with a Forever21 tulle skirt and chunky Torrid wedges. Obviously this outfit shows some skin so it is perfect for the summer! I would wear this out on the town or on a Saturday at the lake. Dress it up with some jewelry and you have yourself one sexy look!


The second bodysuit was different than my usual style, but its good to get out of the norm, right? I do love the royal blue and how well it was made just like my other items from Curvy Sense. I went with a sleek dark denim jegging from Torrid and heels for this bodysuit. I planned on wearing it solo, but the booty didn’t fit like I imagined. It wasn’t full coverage nor was it a thong- it was in the middle, showed a little cheek. I did really enjoy the asymmetrical straps on the bodysuit. Very bold and different especially pared with blue. I would wear this out to lunch with friends or a weekend shopping, but again it could be easily dressed up.

Plus size Color Block Bodysuit-Royal Blue, size 3x, $21.00


Last and my absolute favorite (thought I’m partial to dresses) is the SEXY Plus Size Frill Bodycon dress in RED! They also carry this same dress in mint on the website. At $29.00 I am saying everyone should own this dress. One because everyone needs a sexy red dress and because it fits like a glove, is a great price, and is actually really comfortable. I was highly impressed that the bust area had a sculpted wire. I have a lot of sexy V neck dresses but none have a wire to hold fabric into shape. This knit material was stretchy and also hugged my curves so good. The off the shoulder ruffle detail was another highlight with this dress. The ruffles laid perfect and didn’t overpower the look. The I felt like a total sexpot in this dress and was really comfortable!

Plus size Frill Bodycon dress in red, size 3X, $29.00

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How I Learned To Love Myself, Inside and Out

Loving myself has been an ongoing battle since I can remember. As a kid I was the chubby friend and the fat girl on the softball team that didn’t run very fast. I was every guys friend, but never a girlfriend. My older brother never had to chase guys off because no guys saw me as more than a buddy. This, plus being chubby from day one led to many insecurities.

As a teenager my self confidence was nonexistent. I hid behind my own fat jokes and baggy clothes. I used my humor to hide because inside I had no idea who I was. My family was a typical Midwest family that loved me and gave me all I needed, including lots of meat and potatoes. I had a great life, two great parents who supported anything I did. A spacious home and a car given to me at 16. Life was picture perfect to an outsider.

Around 16 is when I started to learn about depression and mental illness. I became aware that it ran in my family. I learned there is a difference between being a moody teen and being suicidal. Thankfully, my parents saw this and got me help. To this day I am on anti-depressants and am so thankful for them.

Around 18 I met my first real boyfriend. Before this time I never gave my body a good look because I was too busy staying covered and embarrassed.  I never saw my imperfections as beautiful. I only compared myself to women in magazines and on TV.  At a size 10/12 I felt like a blimp. I laugh now when looking back at size 12 me because I really wasn’t big at all.  I hated everything about my body and about my self. Now at a size 20/22 and 33 years old I wish I could tell every teenager that you don’t have to look a certain way! You don’t have to be what is considered good looking in our society! Just be you! And if fat is the worst thing you are, then you are doing pretty damn good in life!

In college I started to appreciate my curves while learning more about myself.  I started playing roller derby and loved that I could have sex appeal while still sweating and knocking girls down. This really exhilarated me and help me break out of my shell. A friend asked me to model for them for a school photography project around this time. From that first shoot I felt absolutely alive in front of the camera. I felt like I could shed all my insecurities and show my true self.  Back then, I was a size 16/18 and felt the best I ever had. I was embracing my body. I started indulging in self care like bubble baths and shopping for items that made feel great. I no longer wanted to wear big t-shirts to cover myself up.

Honestly, life’s ups and downs, mixed with so many new experiences have shaped me into who I am now. Taking risks like going to Scotland for 6 months during college and posing nude for a sculptor have helped me embrace my true self. Putting myself out there has made my confidence grow and that continues even today, at 33. Body Positivity, for me, is just as much about loving my body as it is about loving what’s inside too. Once I was able to treat my depression,  I had to learn to love my body and I realized that it wasn’t going to change. I believe we do inherit a lot of our size from our family and I am now proud of the booty my mom gave me and my freckled skin. It took me 20 years to realize it’s okay to be fat. It’s okay to show my skin and enjoy it. The human body can be art if you let yourself see the beauty.

Lingerie of the Week {1}

Happy Hump Day! Not only are you halfway through your week but starting today, each week I am going to feature a piece of lingerie I absolutely love.

This week’s piece is:
BrandTorrid Microfiber Cheekster Panty.
Price: $18.50 ( but they often run sales and have coupons)
Sizes Available: 00, 0 ,1 ,2 ,3 ,4 ,5 , 6

These cheeky panties are an absolute staple in my panty drawer. They are very comfortable and have just the right amount of belly support without making you feel squeezed in. The microfiber feels silky and smooth but still keep you comfortable throughout the day. When I am not wearing a thong or a boy short, I am likely in these. They are my go to when I want to wear some comfy undies. I highly suggest everyone try a pair of these Cheeksters!

This is me in a Torrid size 2.
Torrid stock photo of the Cheekster Panty

I can’t say enough about these comfortable, sexy and casual underwear from Torrid. Come check out the blog next week to see what’s up next from my panty drawer.

Let Me Introduce Myself

Photo by: Ivory Rose Photography

Why have I started a blog? While, there is not one simple answer; there are several complex reasons.  As a wife, mom, and stepmom; all with a full job, I spend most of my days carrying for others. But I need to take time to make myself happy too!

That is where modeling comes into play. I have been modeling for over 5 years, taking time off when I had my son, and then jumping back into it heavily in the last 2 years. Modeling makes me feel empowered, beautiful, and creative. I want others to know they too can feel that way. No matter what you look like; you are beautiful. It takes time to get there but we all have beauty inside of us.

I will feature lingerie and clothing on this blog to show all woman how they can feel amazing with as little as simple sexy pair of panties. Pair that with an outfit you love, the perfect bra and your day will be banging, just like you!

I also want to talk about daily life and how separating being a mom/wife/employee from my model world is can be very difficult. I often feel guilty about booking shoots out of town, or spending money on outfits for specific shoots. This guilt, has never gone away and it likely never will, at least until my son has grown. I know others can relate to this, and I don’t think there is any shame in needing “me” time.

 As my modeling career grows and evolves, so does my voice. It is time for me to start using my voice to empower others. As a body positive advocate, I will show nothing but love for all shapes and sizes. Taking a different approach, I will also cover some of the taboos about sexuality and bodies.  It’s my belief we are naturally sexual beings, some of us more than others (ME!) and we have nothing to be ashamed of when it comes to our bodies and how we express ourselves. I love my body and it makes me feel great to share my body with others. All my lumps and bumps are art, they are natural, and they are me.

Hope you will enjoy my journey into blogging with me. Please feel free to contact me, as I am an open book and absolutely love meeting new people. Thank you for all the love and support!